An older friend, who could pass as a dad to me owns a bar and few a letout rooms for short sex or even a day booking.
He recently travelled to see his children abroad and asked me to come assist his wife once a while after work/hustle.
The First Scenario:
I was there yesterday and I noticed a man in his 60’s and a woman in her 50’s, drinking and eating together. Their language was of the Eastern and I understood correctly.
After having some bottles, the woman talked about her husband who was on a business trip and her grown up children at the university and all. She locked her shop to come be with the man.
The man also talked about his wife in the village for a function and grown up children bla bla bla!
The man was obviously trying to ask her out…..then she immediately told him that she wouldn’t be interested in that. The man now asked what she wants and she said they should be fvck buddies. She said: “Any time my husband is away, I’ll call u. “We would come here, drink and fvck well”
The man accepted and they booked an hour and went into a room!
Even though they are older and had grown up children, I still don’t like adultery!
I noticed this last week.
I saw 2 beautiful kids, a boy (about 4 years) and a girl (about 2 years) playing inside the bar. I asked my friend’s wife and she said one of her customer had issues with his wife and the wife left him with the kids.
From her story, the guy use to work and provide for his family, till he lost his job and the wife couldn’t cope with the hardship. She abandoned her kids and went away with a rich alhaji.
This guy has been taking care of the kids….bathing and feeding them, taking them to school and bringing them back, cleaning poos, etc.
His rent expired and the landlord sent him packing forcefully, after some months. The reason he stays in the bar in the mean time.
Around 8pm that day, while he was out hustling, I saw the girl sleeping in an uncomfortable manner; hitting her head on the table while she dozed off, and I just thought to myself while carrying her on my arms so she could sleep well; she’s innocent.
She didn’t bring herself to this world. She should be on bed sleeping now. She obviously hadn’t had dinner.
Why would a woman abandon her own kids? Even if u don’t want the man, can’t u take your kids to your parents or even siblings and look after them? Where is the love? Is marriage not in good times and in bad times anymore? I had to shed tears while pondering! I was told the man had no one in the city.
I waited till he came back and I spoke with him. He told me the same.
I felt so sorry for him. He was looking so tired and stressed. I can’t do more than supporting him financially with the little I can.
This has really been disturbing me. Pls ladies, if you know you’re not ready to suffer with your man when things gets tough for him, don’t bother going into marriage! Don’t even bother.
A rich man today could be poor tomorrow. Life happens….it might not be his making! Life is not always Rosy!
Our mothers suffered with our fathers when the going was tough, why can’t we emulate it?
What Is Your Take On This?
Source: News update