Fellow Naijaloadites, Please I have something to share and I need your thoughts on this.
I dated my wife for close to 8 years without sex, we went to same school.
Though the decision of no sex before marriage was mine.
Cos I am a very addictive person, I never wanted to be addicted to sex during my undergraduate days.
She later told me she was a virgin then which I never believed and I told her I am not interested in her being a virgin or not.
Fast forward to our wedding night last year, naxo amaria begin they cry my daddy, my daddy, lets do this thing nah, nah tears full bed.
So I took her to see her dad the next day and both of them were crying like a baby.
We got back to our location, we made several attempts with no sex, we’ve seen different pharmacists, we but different lubricants, but a touch of “pola” on the honeypot area, she will start crying of pains, she’s so scared to the extreme.
Confession: It was after 3 months that we’ve been trying that I was even also able to recognise the location of virginal, I had been putting the thing in a wrong place initially. ….sorry, ain’t a bookworm but a bit spirikoko
I reported her to her parents, they came, brought different lubricants, still we weren’t able to reach the promise land.
Now we’ve decided to go the way of sedative drugs.
Is there any side effects to the drugs?
Do I have to get her to sign a paper cos women ain’t predictable, that she won’t start shouting emotional trauma in the future that her husband drugged her to have the first sex with her. We need kids mehn.
What Should I Do?
I will be in the comment section, thanks.
Source: News update