My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It’s as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.
It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures.
He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while.
My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those periods with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn’t easy at all.
Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him, and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted.
To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn’t drink or smoke, but he lavished all his money outside and Careless about his family.
My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.
So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing WAEC, looking for admission, and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I’m the one to foot my education expenses.
2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt.
I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn’t do.
So because of this COVID-19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can’t move nor stand, and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father-inclusive.
My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife.
6 am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won’t even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people’s shops around the streets discussing with people’s wife’s.
10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there’s any food if my mom had to drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now.
He repeats the same 2pm, 5 pm and night meal also. I’m just so angry right now I don’t even know what I am typing again.
After seeing all this behaviour I advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won’t oblige it’s just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.
Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won’t stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.
Please you guys should advise me on what to do because, at this junction, it hurts me a lot of having the knowledge that my mom is with a man who doesn’t care or love her, even at her sickbed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.
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