I have this business associate.
Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state.
He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his “wife” and he told me she was fine.
Coincidentally, the next day I was on the Island running a business when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions.
Then I asked him again, “how’s your wife?” And I got the shocker of my life, they weren’t married.
Here’s the story:
Apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiancé’s ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady, and he doesn’t want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth.
After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he’ll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed.
Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one-nighter when he traveled for business. Obviously the wedding was canceled and till today he has been unable to explain why he canceled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant.
Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was “pregnant” for the guy.
I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship (she don see mugu).
I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she “made a mistake”.
Needless to say the relationship ended.
The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom.
Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics.OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little of “convincing” because he feels he isn’t ready yet.
Guys Share Your Experiences. Ladies, Give Us Your Reasons.
Source: News update